

“I don’t know how you have a healthy relationship with the whole world knowing about it.” When I press a little harder, she says, “Look, we’re dating, and I don’t think we were trying to hide anything. When I ask about Penn, Theron pushes back. (Also: Madonna, Wright, Theron-all smart, tough blondes. And as someone who knows Penn told me, Theron is more than a little reminiscent of Robin Wright-the one lasting relationship of his life. Penn may go to extreme lengths, from meeting with the late Hugo Chavez in Venezuela to his tireless relief work in Haiti, but Theron is no slouch, either: She founded the Charlize Theron Africa Outreach Project in 2007 and was appointed a Messenger of Peace by UN Secretary-General Ban Ki-moon. It makes a certain kind of sense: Both have a tendency toward harrowing, physically transformative film roles both choose their projects based on directors and both take their social activism very seriously. She adopted her son, Jackson, in 2012 amid a four-year stretch of being single, and now, of course, is dating Sean Penn-another iconoclast who clearly lives by his own set of rules, hard as they may be to decipher. Theron, 38, has managed to become a kind of stealth iconoclast, a modern-day Kate Hepburn, by refusing to conform to society’s-or Hollywood’s-expectations of her: She’s the tall, gorgeous blonde who almost never makes movies that trade on those attributes the exceedingly charming and funny woman who never plays the girlfriend, never makes romantic comedies.
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And I don’t really know how to invest in the other thing.” Because I think that would kind of showcase itself more in a fear of long-term relationships, which I don’t have at all. “A lot of people want to make it about my past, my mom and dad not being in a great marriage, but I will tell you honestly: I have had a good amount of healthy therapy about it, and it really isn’t about that. And as you get older, you start sifting through the stuff that really matters.”īefore I can ask where this aversion comes from, she beats me to the punch. “It’s supposed to be this night of celebrating love, and all you see is a couple separated all night making sure everybody else is OK. And watching other people getting married? I think it’s beautiful for them, but to be quite honest, usually I’m sitting there just devastated.” She starts to laugh.

Let’s put it this way: I never had the dream of the white dress. “I mean, I really do understand the importance and what that ceremony represents to so many people, but it’s just such a personal thing. “That goes to my point about marriage.” Which is what? I ask. “That’s great!” Theron famously never married actor Stuart Townsend during their nine-year relationship and, partly because of that, is often asked about her very strong opinions about the institution. “Laziness!” she shouts and lets out a full-throated, head-thrown-back cackle. “What is your current thinking on that?” she says. Theron reminds me that we once had a long conversation about gay marriage, and when I tell her that my partner and I have still not tied the knot, her eyes light up. The salty, ball-busting humor seems to flow from rather serious stuff, things she’s been puzzling over-in this instance, marriage, family, and aging. If nothing else, it keeps you on your toes.īut it’s not all bluster and subterfuge. Wondering where she is going to run with the conversation next is a little like walking through a field of land mines: Watch your step.
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I have written about Theron twice before and discovered that she is not just more fun than the average movie star in fact, she takes the cake. This is how you make a 40-year marriage last-right here.” Mario doesn’t blink. And we’re gonna go home and watch a crime show and fall asleep. We’re coming for our vodka and orange juice and our steaks.

And then to Mario: “We’re here for the early-bird special. “Jesus-we’re like an old married couple,” she says to me. When our waiter, Mario, comes by to take our order and we both want exactly the same thing-a screwdriver and a strip steak-the absurdity tees up Theron for the perfect drive straight down the middle of the fairway. We are in the Florida Keys, staying just a quick walk away at an elegant resort in Islamorada that was once a coconut plantation. The sun is dipping beneath the watery horizon, and Charlize Theron and I are sitting on the veranda at Pierre’s, a white-tablecloth joint filled with people wearing shorts. Shimmi one-shoulder bathing suit with laced-up eyelets. “There’s this passionate creature in me here,” Theron says.
